A few days ago, my dad advised me that beta in this world only the love of parents is pure and unconditional, they give without demanding anything in return other than this relation, everyone demands something in return even your siblings whom you love unconditionally plays a game of give and take so be patient and make yourself capable to stand independently in this world. I understood the concept and applied it to different relationships of mine.
When I applied it to the love of my sister, I found the unconditional love of hers. She doesn’t want anything in return. She always helped me to grow and encourage me to be myself without any doubt.
When I applied it to the love of my good friends, I found the conditional love of them. Their love demands something in return if I for some reason cannot fulfill their expectations, they change their behavior towards me, so to maintain my relations, I have to play my part in the game of give and return.
When I applied it to the love of my best friend, ah! of course, the result was positive. She doesn’t even know I was testing her :p I found our love unconditionally gay 😀
I know, give and take is a general rule of life but you know it makes me feel special whenever I find unconditional love around me.
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